That family shit? Gone. Worries about money or school? Gone. Frustration/bewilderment over a girl? Gone.
To focus so deeply on something that all the other tracks running trains of worries, desires or cares disappear is restful. And revelatory. This is the zone where I find out what skills and resources I have and gaze upon the enormity of what I don't have. This is where I find out in truth how I measure against the others.
Fight and find out.
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The first 300 seconds isn't bad. My heart rate's up and I'm fresh. Even with the slower pace I set these days, I move quickly and surely. Sometimes even acrobatically. So does he (or she). The end always comes as a surprise.
I could have done more, we weren't finished here yet, what would have happened...
I let go of my opponent, sit up, slowly stand up, straighten my gi and face my opponent. The instructor tells us to shift to the right or left. We move to a different match. To a different mind, to a different set of strengths, weaknesses, predilections. Adrian likes collar chokes. Rich leaves the omaplota open a lot. Bill's working on his upside down guard.
The second matches are the ones that I have the best shot at escaping unscathed or even locking in a submission myself. I've made the change from remembering what it's like to roll to actually rolling again. In the flow, mind zinging, and the energy is there to take lots of risks, to experiment.
So, if I hang out here and keep this down, I can slide up my foot and Wow, I wasn't expecting that. Okay, worked/didn't work. Next thing...
The third match is the beginning of the slide. I used to think that this was my limit, but the combination of the new rhythym, getting more experienced and pushing through some mental barriers lets me go on. By now, I've usually gone up against one blue, maybe someone around my level and either another blue or someone newer than me. Maybe I get a solid row of blues, maybe I work only with people newer than me.
It's a shuffle. I admit to being tempted to position myself so I get an easier session, but the coach is there in the back of my mind. You didn't come here to puss out, did you?
I get what I get.
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When the grapple permits, I look up and see Victor watching us roll, holding that stopwatch and barking out one or two word orders. With me, he can't bark those orders, so I have to be watching as he mimes the techniques or clearly enuciates the orders while I'm looking.
Sometimes, it's just a smile or a shake of the head and I understand him anyways.
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By the fourth, I'm tired. Twenty minutes of grappling. I make a lot of mistakes. Arms out of position, legs aren't where they should be, holes open up. The coach inside is starting to rant and rave. I roll onto my hands, knees, forehead and breathe for a few moments after each choke. I look forwards to the end. A sense of duty propels me to shakily regain my feet, rearrange my rumpled gi, retie my white belt and line up again for the switch.
"Shift to your right."
Again? This is some sick satanic spin cycle of sweat, pain and jiu-jitsu, isn't it?
Usually around the fourth switch, I reach THAT match - the Lay it all on the mat match. Third wind. This is when I burn those reserves of energy I save for later. This is when that coach inside break into AlPacinoInAnyGivenSunday mode. The coach pushes me to do everything, absolutely everything, I can to win. Breaths come hard and I grimace. Any smoothness I had to my technique is gone. It comes in jerks and stutters. I make more mistakes. Stupid mistakes I know better than to make. I also learn how to succeed here too.
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As I gain more experience in rolling, I'm learning to see the doors that the moves open. Even when they don't go as planned, there's alternatives, different routes to take. From my back, I can try the gogoplata (which almost always fails), shift to an arm-bar (sometimes works), perhaps scoot out and go for an omaplota (sometimes works, if it doesn't, I'm usually in better position), sweep (with the one plausible sweep I have, sometimes works), try to take the back, disengange, roll into upside down guard and so on. The doors were always there. I just had to build the instincts to see and to open them by being on the mats.
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The next match is my breaking point.
It's hard to do anything right. I maintain position. I'm in straight survival mode. I left it all on the mat last match. I cannot reliably match thought with action - nothing works right anymore. The sweeps, the shifts in position are slow and the more you slow down, the harder you have to work because your opponent has more time to see the move and react. The coach inside is subsiding, angrily muttering and giving me dirty looks. When "Time" is called, I actually blank for a few blissful seconds. I get back to my feet, rearrange my gi and then look across the mat at my opponent. Sometimes the last bout is a good one and we're both happy with it. Sometimes it's a bad one and I'm frowning in disappointment. Or my opponent is.
No bout has ever been precisely the same as one before it. I don't know if I remember the entirety of them either. I think I remember just bursts, impressions, sections I didn't like, or moves that worked. I do remember vivdly the time my elbow went crunch in an armbar. John and I looked at each other with those Oh shit! expressions on our faces and disengaged before the pain hit me.
In the locker room, I stand with a subtle smile on my face because there isn't anything else I'd rather have done with my time. The coach inside is tentatively satisfied and knows that I'll be working in and out of class to come back again stronger, faster and smarter. Injuries be damned.
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I'm pushing that exhaustion point farther and farther away now.
Victor added two stripes to my white belt recently. I wasn't expecting it and was honored. Now I'm trying to live up to it and then some.